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Starbux
Posts : 694 Points : 5458 Rep : 18 Join date : 2011-07-28 Location : Woodbridge, VA
| Subject: Am I a dick for this? Wed Oct 26, 2011 10:25 pm | |
| So I dated this new chic over the summer. Not to toot my own horn but I have pretty high standards and all my friends were wondering if this was a charity case for me. She was very sweat but got psycho fast. She said she loved me the first month and wanted my baby the second month.... I broke up with her 2 times and brought her back because I felt bad. 3rd time we broke up she broke up with me and wanted me back like 3 days later. I told her "sorry I dont get back with someone that breaks up with me " ... Fast forward a month. Was feeling a little lonely and I txt her that I missed her alot and wanted to see her. ( really didnt) Had sex and didnt call or text her for like a month. Fast forward to this week. I kept telling her I wanted her back ( lonely again ) and by lonely i mean... but she wouldnt budge because she has a new bf or something. Some dirtbag thats always getting in trouble and chit. Here is were it gets real. She posted on FB that females are dumb and not trust worthy thats why she has mostly guy friends. I stated ... "you know what they say about a girl with mostly guy friends" *I was jsut messing with her but in her case... * So she deleted me and txt me to lose her number.... I replied ... " O thats cool , hope you have fun with your guy "friends" o and by the way there is no going back from this. she said why I told her that I didnt actually care about her the past couple months and only been tellin her that because I got what I wanted out of it.... Does that make me a dick? |
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V-DC5
Posts : 462 Points : 5183 Rep : 7 Join date : 2011-08-01 Location : Classified
| Subject: Re: Am I a dick for this? Thu Oct 27, 2011 12:05 am | |
| why not be straight up with a person? I don't understand why people now a days aren't more open and honest about what they truly feel and think. If you were just trying to to have a "fling" with her, you should have told her straight up, why add in lies telling her you miss her when you truly don't. If she would have rejected the offer then f*** it, plenty of fish in the sea. With telling a lie, you just dig yourself in a deeper hole, and then when "chit gets real" you realize you could have avoided all the 'drama' that comes with it. Just my 2 cents, but then again I do have a strong opinion. so no hard feelings, haha |
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Starbux
Posts : 694 Points : 5458 Rep : 18 Join date : 2011-07-28 Location : Woodbridge, VA
| Subject: Re: Am I a dick for this? Thu Oct 27, 2011 12:06 am | |
| Because this fish kept coming back for the same bait |
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V-DC5
Posts : 462 Points : 5183 Rep : 7 Join date : 2011-08-01 Location : Classified
| Subject: Re: Am I a dick for this? Thu Oct 27, 2011 12:14 am | |
| well then you were being the masochist and she was being the sadist haha
it doesn't take much for a guy to mislead a woman with lies, because when a woman hears "what she wants to hear" and the guy has a "double agenda" with the plot it's kinda fucked up in my opinion. It just proves to show that a guy (not quoting all guys, but for those that apply) will say or do almost anything to get a girl to sleep with him. But then again, to each their own, no judgement haha
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trish Ugh, BAWSE
Posts : 330 Points : 5086 Rep : 18 Join date : 2011-07-28 Location : va
| Subject: Re: Am I a dick for this? Thu Oct 27, 2011 3:18 am | |
| she sounds dumb and naive, but you could've told her earlier that you just wanted the poon. if you knew that she wouldn't sleep with you if you'd been honest, if i were you i would've just said f*** it and moved on to the next number just to be kinda courteous and avoid bs down the road. but that's just meeee!
i say if you feel like a dick for what you said/did, then you are. if you don't, then you're not. considering she seems like she doesn't mind being easy, i say you just worry about what your own conscience is saying about you. kinda like, if you took the last slice of cake in the house, whether or not you're a jerk for doing that depends on how guilty you really feel about it since no one said anything or was there. lol does that make sense? idk im pulling an all nighter so im kind of delirious |
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Starbux
Posts : 694 Points : 5458 Rep : 18 Join date : 2011-07-28 Location : Woodbridge, VA
| Subject: Re: Am I a dick for this? Thu Oct 27, 2011 3:28 am | |
| All nighters! I seen u on fb but was like I'm2 tired to reply lol . |
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barnabas
Posts : 105 Points : 4796 Rep : 6 Join date : 2011-07-29 Location : pasadena MD
| Subject: Re: Am I a dick for this? Thu Oct 27, 2011 3:43 am | |
| if you were just hooking up with her why do you even care??
She sounds like a teenager. let her go |
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Mase! Moderator
Posts : 1342 Points : 6085 Rep : 26 Join date : 2011-07-28 Location : Hanover, MD
| Subject: Re: Am I a dick for this? Thu Oct 27, 2011 10:15 am | |
| wahahaha..yes you are a dick but this is funny because girls are very naive! sad!!!! and pathetic actually! girls just need to start realizing that the ball isnt in one persons court...both parties have the power in this situation..takes TWO to tangooo |
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V-DC5
Posts : 462 Points : 5183 Rep : 7 Join date : 2011-08-01 Location : Classified
| Subject: Re: Am I a dick for this? Thu Oct 27, 2011 1:07 pm | |
| - Mase! wrote:
- wahahaha..yes you are a dick but this is funny because girls are very naive! sad!!!! and pathetic actually! girls just need to start realizing that the ball isnt in one persons court...both parties have the power in this situation..takes TWO to tangooo
*SOME GIRLS. not all. |
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Mase! Moderator
Posts : 1342 Points : 6085 Rep : 26 Join date : 2011-07-28 Location : Hanover, MD
| Subject: Re: Am I a dick for this? Thu Oct 27, 2011 1:37 pm | |
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Starbux
Posts : 694 Points : 5458 Rep : 18 Join date : 2011-07-28 Location : Woodbridge, VA
| Subject: Re: Am I a dick for this? Thu Oct 27, 2011 3:57 pm | |
| Ive never met a chic like her.... like I could just ignore her and call her back up and she would come running back .... even now she apologized to me today... FOR WHAT???? I HAVE NO CLUE |
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V-DC5
Posts : 462 Points : 5183 Rep : 7 Join date : 2011-08-01 Location : Classified
| Subject: Re: Am I a dick for this? Thu Oct 27, 2011 3:58 pm | |
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Starbux
Posts : 694 Points : 5458 Rep : 18 Join date : 2011-07-28 Location : Woodbridge, VA
| Subject: Re: Am I a dick for this? Thu Oct 27, 2011 4:02 pm | |
| ... is it that good? She is hella crazy... |
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p350gt Ugh, BAWSE
Posts : 2223 Points : 7085 Rep : 35 Join date : 2011-07-28 Location : NOVA
| Subject: Re: Am I a dick for this? Thu Oct 27, 2011 5:33 pm | |
| your a DICK dom normally son. what else is new...lol jk jk
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V-DC5
Posts : 462 Points : 5183 Rep : 7 Join date : 2011-08-01 Location : Classified
| Subject: Re: Am I a dick for this? Fri Oct 28, 2011 12:05 am | |
| - Starbux wrote:
- ... is it that good? She is hella crazy...
I personally wouldn't think so, but like I said...to each their own |
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barnabas
Posts : 105 Points : 4796 Rep : 6 Join date : 2011-07-29 Location : pasadena MD
| Subject: Re: Am I a dick for this? Fri Oct 28, 2011 12:12 am | |
| Well at least you know what to say when people ask you what you are for Halloween when you arent wearing a costume |
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Mase! Moderator
Posts : 1342 Points : 6085 Rep : 26 Join date : 2011-07-28 Location : Hanover, MD
| Subject: Re: Am I a dick for this? Fri Oct 28, 2011 9:38 am | |
| - barnabas wrote:
- Well at least you know what to say when people ask you what you are for Halloween when you arent wearing a costume
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laserspeeddemon
Posts : 498 Points : 5180 Rep : 1 Join date : 2011-08-30 Location : Fredericksburg, VA
| Subject: Re: Am I a dick for this? Fri Oct 28, 2011 11:54 am | |
| Since you asked. Yeah, you're a ****. The fact that you think using another human being to attain your goals and toss him or her aside is OK makes you one. And the fact that you had the need to come post a thread about re-enforces it. Either you are trying to confirm an action which you feel was wrong to yourself by having people say it's OK or you want to brag about to your friends about it. Now I wouldn't necessarily call you a d***, but rather you are infantile. You have a toy and you don't know what to do with it so you bash it against anything that lets you.
I'm with V when she says be straight up with people. So that's what this is. |
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WhosThisGuy
Posts : 678 Points : 5305 Rep : 10 Join date : 2011-10-27 Location : Warrenton, VA
| Subject: Re: Am I a dick for this? Fri Oct 28, 2011 12:42 pm | |
| While your facebook comment was meant as a joke, the previous actions were very d**k-ish. I've pulled the same stunt shortly after college, but it is still a d**k move. |
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Rolling Guy
Posts : 196 Points : 4841 Rep : 5 Join date : 2011-09-20 Location : Wanderer
| Subject: Re: Am I a dick for this? Fri Oct 28, 2011 5:42 pm | |
| agreed^^ you are acting like one of them guys son |
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Starbux
Posts : 694 Points : 5458 Rep : 18 Join date : 2011-07-28 Location : Woodbridge, VA
| Subject: Re: Am I a dick for this? Fri Oct 28, 2011 6:57 pm | |
| And I still don't care...... like I seen her today and nothing |
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